Thursday, June 18, 2015

I luh God!

Erica Campbell luh’s God. What’s wrong with you? When I first heard this song, I saw it with the video and I was speechless. I heard this song again on the Rickey Smiley Morning Show and she was a guest speaker and she called the song the “Ratchet Righteous Turn Up Song” and I was tickled pink.
Initial Impression
At first I thought, Wow, Erica has really taken gospel music far. Watching the video took me back to my childhood when I was in church faithfully. The choir director at my church was a bit stricter on her daughter and she didn’t allow her to listen to certain gospel songs because they had a “worldly” ring to them. I didn’t understand what she meant at the time and honestly I didn’t think anything of it until I saw this video.
Don’t get me wrong I understand what she was trying to do and that she is trying to reach a wider audience. It’s nothing new that Mary Mary has crossed genres because this is something that they always do. However, the video for me was a bit much. The big hair, the crowd of people, Jazzy Pha/ DJ Khaled guy and the dance moves were just coming at me all too quickly and I wasn’t expecting it at all.
Process
 I quickly asked my friends what they thought about this song and they were turned off by the song as well. However, I listened to the song again without the video and it was somehow different to me. I was better able to perceive the message of the song and also feel the song. The lyrics are very simple and to the point. She loves God because he has done so much for her and continues to do so much for her. This is something that I include in my prayers every night so I can relate. She goes on to bring in the audience that may not love God in the way that she does. She tells them to think about their life and their blessings and how they are not doing it alone. She tells them to be thankful for having GOD on their side and to love him. She tells them how without him things for them could be different. A very simple message, not hard to follow at all. I like the message of this song and what it is trying to convey but the video was a distraction to me. But Why? Why was this video such a big distraction?
This video was a distraction to me for the same reason I keep my gospel music and my “worldly” music on two separate playlists on my phone and computer. I don’t feel that they should mix. For me it’s out of respect. Now I know plenty of people that have no problem mixing the two and they would go from Future to Marvin Sapp in 2 seconds. That makes me uncomfortable. Maybe it’s guilt because I was always told that the music of the world is bad. On the other hand, I totally understand the need to take it there. You have to find a way to connect. This was a way to connect with someone. Maybe it set with me wrong but for someone else they said hey “Gospel music can be hype too.” It’s what Erica Campbell said in her interview. This is the “ratchet righteous turn up.” I get that. I understand that. We are in a different time and I recognize that some things that I grew up doing or being taught are not going over so well now and people have to do what they can to grab the attention of others. I appreciate Erica for thinking outside of the box. I hope that the message got to someone.

With peace and love,

The Sincerest Heart

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Thursday, June 11, 2015

Therapeutic Perspective on the DreamWork’ s Animated Movie Home

 Since becoming a mental health professional  I find the meaning in everything. I look for the meaning in music, the big picture in TV shows, and meanings in movies. My boyfriend says it’s too much; however, I can’t help myself. It’s not like I just sit down and go “Hmmm… What does the writer want me to know?”  Well I take that back, I do it in music. I just want to know what I am listening too.
Well back to the point. HOME. BOMB A** Movie! It only got like a 6.8 on IMDB. According to my friend, that is okay. Well I love this movie for entertainment and therapeutic purposes. Reasons for movie being therapeutic:
1)      Friendship: The movie addresses real friendship. You know, the kind of friendship where you argue and fight about them not being there for you. The kind of friendship where you doubt their loyalty to you. Yes that kind of friendship. I think that kids need to see that friendships have their ups and downs and that you bounce back from them, if they are true relationships.
2)      Multicultural: Tip is from Barbados and O is from some planet. Despite their differences and how totally different their roles and lifestyles are they seem to get over it and become friends. They also start to teach each other about the other’s culture.
3)      Lost: Although no one in the movie died. They both lost something in the beginning. Tip lost her mom and O lost his home and his people turned their backs on him. How do you go on and deal with emotions after lost. This movie addresses it.
4)      Determination: It’s obvious that she was determined to get to her mother and he was determined to get away and have a good life and have fun.
5)      Self Esteem: Both characters have low self-esteem and do not feel accepted by their peers. The two of them open up to one another and address it. Tip feels that because she is new and from another place she doesn’t fit in.  None of the other Boovs like O. He is treated poorly
6)      Entertainment: Did I mention that this movie has some comedy as well. It is really entertaining and funny. Laughter is therapeutic all in itself.
If you haven’t seen it yet. Watch it. This movie can be great for groups, especially with small children. Movies to look out for “INSIDE OUT” I am just anticipation how good this movie is going to be. I love what the animated movie makers have been doing lately.

With the Sincerest Heart